Ok so I took Drew to our Neurologist last week.... and after a VERY long appointment and a LOT of discussion we decided to try Drew on medication for his anxiety and OCD issues. I guess I always knew we would come to this day and although some parents may be a wreck over this kind of decision, I am very at peace.. SCARED to death.. but at peace with my decision. He will be starting on a VERY low dose and once we find the right one, he will stay on it for a total of 2 months and then go off and "coast". The idea being that if he can overcome his anxiety and OCD ON meds and see that nothing bad happens, we HOPE that it will stick... and if not.. no big deal.. we go back on again. Now don't get me wrong, I am not thrilled that my 8 year old is on DRUGS!! (well legal prescription DRUGS) but I know he needs "something". And although it has only been barely a week I see many positive things!! REALLY!! His comprehension is better. His communication is better. That hat has been off for longer periods of time!!! BUT he did have a MAJOR meltdown this morning.. scary meltdown and I wasn't even sure if he could go to school (not blaming the meds but who knows!)... but we have the most AMAZING person in our lives (we have a few others as well..I think you know who you are!) ... Ms. C (Drew's aide) and she made it all better... really she is a miracle worker... Now I may just really WANT to believe the meds are working/helping...but I really think they are.. :) The meltdown was big and Ms. C was able to defuse it but I really think he is better able to handle all that is being thrown at him right now much better ( school starting, new teacher, etc)...all in all I am thrilled..I know there is no miracle drug to "fix" Drew's autism (I don't even think that is the right word, I'm not trying to "fix" him.. just help and support) but I do know that I will do all I can to make life more manageable for him... AND Cole too. Got to work on that kid as well!... Now what the hell do I get to make life more manageable??? Oh right, wine and chocolate.. ok I'll take it :)
Oh and the kid (Drew) who b*tched and moaned about having his picture taken today (today was picture day) seemed to have gotten over it and had it done...(THANK YOU Ms. C for making it happen!!) I only had a little bit of luck this morning..
That has to be one of the best pictures ever of the boys! They are so becoming their own individuals. Try to take it easy on yourself re the meds, you are so observant re the boys that you will see the effects almost immediately. Just as your exploration of natural and environmental factors has progressed maybe the medical option is worth a look as well. Sometimes that open mind is pretty good course of action as well. Love you all!
ReplyDeleteThanks Dawn.. my mind is not always open for sure but I just hope its open at the right times! Need to see you soon... Love you guys :)
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